Singing is not one of my super powers. So, when a friend invited me to an evening of karaoke at a local bar a few years ago, I was tempted to say “maybe next time!” But I summoned up my courage and discovered that singing karaoke wasn’t so scary after all. I sang that night (after a few glasses of wine!) and was hooked. A highlight was when a group of young women danced with abandon, chanting my name, to my rendition of Blondie’s “One Way or Another.” I was a star, at least for a moment in time!
Since then, I’ve sung karaoke at the Royal Canadian Legion, in a private karaoke room in New York City, and at various bars in our area. And while I won’t be winning any Canada’s Got Talent awards, I’ve found the perfect girls’ night out and date night option.
Singing karaoke prodded me out of my comfort zone, increased my confidence, and served as a reminder that I don’t have to be perfect. Life is short (and increasingly tough) and being playful should be embraced, especially during the cold and often depressing winter months.
There are many ways to karaoke locally, including a night at the Legion, karaoke nights at bars and restaurants hosted by dynamic DJs, renting a private room for your group, and singing with a live band. All are waiting to be explored.
Jane Watson, who hosts the popular Thursday Karaoke in the Lounge at the Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 60 in Burlington, shares the following tips for fi rst timers and for those who want to feel more comfortable on a karaoke stage:
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Come in with a smile and an open mind, and don’t take yourself too seriously. Say hi to the host or someone sitting at the next table.
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Choose a song that you relate to, not a song you think you should sing.
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Have fun!
Watson learned from a mentor, 28 years ago, that it takes three times to nail a song. “The first time, you will be nervous and not used to the lyrics scrolling in front of you while singing,” she says. “Don’t fret over missing words. The second time, you will be more relaxed on stage and with reading the lyrics and each time you sing you will feel more confident. You will sing the song much better as you are now finding your groove. The third time is a charm for the same song, or a different song, as you are feeling more comfortable on the stage and probably making eye contact with your friends or the audience.”
The stage is set
Connecting with an audience and feeling the love from the room are tangible results of singing your heart out at karaoke. As Breanna Cordeiro, General Manager of AB Sports Bar explains, community is front and centre during AB’s busy Friday karaoke nights. People from ages 18 to 80 participate in the interactive fun
“We have a nice community field and all are welcome,” Cordeiro says. “It’s fun to experience, and our DJ Chris is very good at welcoming and making people feel comfortable.” She adds that AB has karaoke regulars, as well as people who aren’t comfortable singing right away – many of whom show up with a group, watch others sing, and join in later.
“Singing really helps people to get out of their shell, and people get a thrill from being on stage,” Cordeiro says. “After doing it they feel like they want to come back and do it again.”
If you aren’t ready to step on a stage in front of others, or want to more intimate singing experience, renting a private karaoke room is a great option and luckily, you don’t have to go to NYC (like I did) Game Time Social in Burlington has a private karaoke room that holds up to 10 people.
People using the karaoke room can even order drinks and food in there.
“We want people to feel comfortable,” says Jessica Santacruz, Local Store Marketer for Game Time, “and we have sound proofing in the room, which helps people let loose and lets guests dining in enjoy the other music that plays throughout our venue.”
With so many options for karaoke in our area, what are you waiting for? Get a few friends together and enjoy a night out that will blast away your winter blues!
Where To Get Your Karaoke On!
AB Sports Bar
2000 APPLEBY LINE, BURLINGTON
Karaoke Night, Fridays, hosted by Chris Hazzard 9 pm. – 1:00 am.
ABSPORTSBAR.COM
Black Swan Kitchen Pub
4040 PALLADIUM WAY, BURLINGTON
3420 REBECCA STREET, OAKVILLE
Saturday Karaoke Night Party, 9 pm.
BLKSWAN.CA
Carrigan Arms
2025 UPPER MIDDLE ROAD, BURLINGTON
Karaoke on Fridays, hosted by Randy Moisan 8:30 pm.
CARRIGANARMS.CA
Dickens Pub
423 ELIZABETH STREET, BURLINGTON
Karaoke Night with DJ Robin Hamilton, every Thursday, 10 pm.
THEDICKENS.CA
Game Time Social
3330 SOUTH SERVICE ROAD, BURLINGTON
Reserve at 905-634-4756,
$40 per hour Thursdays after 8 pm you can reserve a free session of karaoke.
GAMETIMESOCIAL.CA
Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 60
828 LEGION ROAD, BURLINGTON
Thursday Karaoke in the Lounge, with Jane Watson, 6:30 pm. – 10:30 pm.
BURLINGTONLEGION.COM/HOME
Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 551
79 HAMILTON, ST. N, WATERDOWN
Karaoke, October 25 and November 29/24
WATERDOWNLEGION.CA
Temple Bar British Pub
1140 WINSTON CHURCHILL BLVD #1, OAKVILLE
Friday Night Karaoke Night with DJ Sugar Shane
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