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This is not a drill – sport chic joggers are every busy woman’s wardrobe essential. Made by Sanctuary, these White Camo Peace Brigade Joggers are made from soft and comfortable French Terry material. Check out Joelle’s Sanctuary store within the store to find these and other cool must-have pieces this season.
Joelle’s, Burlington
joelles.com

 

Island View

Colourful Carry-on

This Sunbathers Foldable Beach Tote could easily function as a weekend carryall or springtime work tote. Printed canvas, quickly folds up and snaps closed.
Island View A Lilly Pulitzer Signature Store, Oakville
@lillypulizteroakville

 

My Girfriend's Closet

Kiss Me Kate

Consignment shopping is fun and rewarding. You could be the proud scorer of one Kate Spade dress and handbag, like these, and be ready for any springtime outing.
My Girlfriend’s Closet, Bronte
mygirlfriendsclosetburlington.ca

 

Jupe

Boldly Go

Make a statement the next time you step out on the town in a boldly patterned dress by Dolcezza, with prints inspired by famous works of art.
Jupe, Waterdown
shopjupe.com

 

Burrows Clothiers

Blaze of Glory

A breath of fresh air from Canali’s Spring Summer 2018 collection. Pieces like this blazer are designed for the contemporary traveler, who knows that whether it’s for business or pleasure he’s going to look good.
Burrows Clothiers, Oakville
burrowsclothiers.com

 

Bush's Menswear

Tie Time

A bright, colourful bowtie instantly imparts spring. It’s like a mini burst of freshness – and less likely to get dipped in your dinner! Find these and other styles at Bush’s in Downtown Burlington
Bush’s Mens Wear, Burlington
bushs.ca

 

My Top Drawer

Nice and Neutral

Neutral, lightweight and perfect under a plain white T-shirt. The lightweight Prima Donna Madison bra offers full support and is specially designed to fit and flatter a full bust. Visit My Top Drawer for a professional fitting, something they specialize in.
My Top Drawer, Burlington
mytopdrawer.com

 

Zahara's

Luscious Linen

Easy going style for work and for the weekend, designed by Bryn Walker, this Asymmetrical Noa Tunic features a cowl neck and made of 100% linen. Colour depicted is Joy.
Zahara’s Boutique, Oakville
zaharasboutique.com

 

Peak Performance

Flower Flow

Go with the flow and be comfortable in this Nimatha skirt. Features a bright floral print combined with raw edges and sheer fabric to create a perfect balance of feminine cool. Dress up for date night or down for a quick trip to the market.
Peak Performance, Oakville
peak-oakville.ca

 

Good On Ya

Jeff’s Guy Shop is now carrying Good Man Brand. Pieces like this sport coat are made with a philosophy just like Jeff’s. Created by NFL quarterback Russell Wilson, Good Man Brand aims to bring out the best in men with pieces designed for comfort and motion.
Jeff’s Guy Shop, Burlington
jeffsguyshop.com

Ah, summer camp: a place to play, learn, bunk with friends new and old and connect with the environment. S’mores, campfires and singsongs too, please!

Choosing the best one is an important decision. Whether it’s a day-to-day or sleep away camp you’ll want your child to be enriched, learn valuable skills and create wonderful memories. Organizations like the Ontario Camp Association (OCA) and Our Kids are extremely helpful to search for camp options. A certified OCA camp will bear the logo on its website.

Overnight It

Options for sleep away camps are almost limitless – it really depends on the type of activities you want your child to participate in – and whether you want to stick within the province or go beyond Ontario’s border. Does your child like horses, dance, outdoor pursuits, sports, yoga, robotics, music, public speaking or art? Are you looking for something more faith-based? Co-ed? More than likely there’s a place that matches your child’s interests. Here are just a few fun and enriching examples:

Summer Camps

Centauri Arts Camp

Where: Wellandport
This summer home-away-from-home welcomes youth from eight to 18. Aptly named, there are over 40 programs revolving around acting, stage combat, dance, fine art, creative writing, music, TV production and more – even a cultural tour trip to Scotland.
centauriartscamp.com

The Wylde Swan

Where: International
Here’s a world-class learning experience for adventurous boys and girls aged 14 to 25 – summer onboard the Wylde Swan. This year the camp will be taking part in the Tall Ship Races 2018 in Scandinavia. There’s a strong focus on hands-on teamwork and decision-making. Students learn basic seamanship and enjoy extracurricular activities. Various organized excursions are also designed to enhance a uniquely cultural experience.
wyldeswan.com

Muskoka Woods

Where: Muskoka
“Once discovered, never forgotten” is Muskoka’s tagline. Kids have been enjoying this camp since 1979 and there are over 50 types of activities for kids ages seven to 17. There are over 1,100 acres and 2,800 feet of shoreline on Lake Rousseau with world-class facilities and sports complexes. Almost like being at the cottage, campers can customize their schedule to fill a six-hour day with everything from adrenaline boosting pursuits to art. Staff to guest ratio is 1:2.
muskokawoods.com

Summer Camps

Day Dreamers

Day camps provide a fun environment for kids, and are especially helpful if both parents still need to work their usual nine to five routine. The YMCA, Town of Oakville and City of Burlington all offer day camps, and there are so many options, including Lego, art or Stem, so here are just a few to choose from:

Conservation Halton: Ways of the Woods

Where: Milton
A summer of biking, rock climbing, caving, archery, and boating, among many other activities; a sample of “all the hallmarks of a Canadian childhood.” Ages four to 15. WOW offers free supervised busing at select stops in Burlington, Oakville, Milton, Georgetown, Acton, and Mississauga.
conservationhalton.ca/wow

Appleby Collage

Where: Oakville
Campus turns to camp during the summer. Camps are organized into four major programs and are offered in full and half days: Early Discovery (ages 4 – 7), and older campers (7-17) can choose Sports & Adventure, Arts & Media, Science & Success and a new Leadership Camp.
appleby.on.ca

Kerr St. Mission Camp

Where: Oakville
Children can enjoy a safe and nurturing environment participating in lots of fun activities. KSM’s mission of being committed to helping youth learn, develop and prepare themselves for success carries through in their camps.
kerrstreet.com/ksdc

Camp Kahuna

Where: Burlington
Lots to do and so close to the city on 65 acres in the Niagara Escarpment: campfires, swimming, fishing, co-operative games, and fort building. Campers also learn about role model leadership through entertaining presentations.
kids4kids.ca

by Becky Dumais

Local Links

Our Kids
ourkids.net

The Ontario Camp Association
ontariocampsassociation.ca

 

Summer Camps

The definition of a botanical garden includes, but is not limited to: a reasonable degree of permanence; an underlying scientific basis for the collections; proper documentation of collections; monitoring of plants in the collections; labeling of plants; exchange of seed or other materials with other botanic gardens or institutions; open to the public. The Royal Botanical Gardens (RBG) is all those things…and more.

The RBG was founded over 80 years ago by Hamiltonian and conservationist Thomas Baker McQuesten. It’s patterned after the famous Kew Gardens in England. The number of collections has increased over time, and so has the number of programs. Today you can choose to stroll through the trails and various garden properties to see what’s in bloom, but you can also experience the RBG in many surprising ways. There are over 200 courses and workshops for families, adults and kids that focus around gardening, nature, the botanical arts and wellness.

Royal Botanical Gardens

The following are just a few ways to experience this local gem.

Master Your Garden lets adults flex their green thumbs with the help of experts. Upcoming workshops will help you get your garden into shape. Learn how to maintain a healthy lawn, discover container gardening, and grow your own fresh produce. Some workshops offer multiple sessions to further your keen for green.

Into the Wild is where adventure meets education. A peaceful paddle in paradise puts the beginner canoeist in touch with local flora and fauna and includes topical discussions with experts in the RGB nature sanctuaries. An Introduction to Canoeing workshop runs this June 9 and 10, and Paddling into Paradise experiences are happening May 12, 22 and 27. Both allow you to see Cootes Paradise by canoe and see nature and wildlife both in the water and on land.  Get Back to Nature Walks run every Sunday; a volunteer leader takes hikers on a family-friendly walk through the RBG’s vast ecosystems. These walks are free, and it’s a surefire way to get your fill of nature and fresh air.

Royal Botanical Gardens

Beekeeping is becoming a popular activity, and it seems that we humans are becoming increasingly responsible for maintaining a healthy bee population. The Urban Beekeeping series is one of the RBG’s newest experiences. In this series, veteran beekeeping instructors and honeybee breeders will guide you through topics that include an introduction to bees and the hive environment, summer hive maintenance and honey harvesting, as well as putting the bees to bed in the fall.

What is a garden if not art in flower form? There are a series of dates and workshops over the next few months around the topic of Art in the Gardens. Learn how to paint spring landscapes, or explore watercolour techniques; a course on Chinese Floral Painting teaches balance, harmony and stroke techniques while you sit in the lilac dell. One of the programs in the Health and Wellness series allows you to learn about yoga and Tai Chi outdoors – a unique and tranquil way to combine your downward dog with the daffodils. 

Royal Botanical Gardens

Kids are curious by nature and there’s no better way to satisfy their curiosity than to submerge them in an interesting environment. Junior Naturalists meet one Saturday a month until May, and Gardening Programs for Kids teach kids how to take care of their own garden plot (plus cooking, hikes, games and crafts too). 

How about enjoying breakfast with a beat? Throw a little jazz in with your toast and jam at the Jazz Brunches. This summer concert series is served over weekends with a wide menu that appeals to all ages, but make sure to reserve early. Mom would likely love the Mother’s Day brunch. Afterwards, take her on a stroll through the gardens, and perhaps even down memory lane.

by Becky Dumais

Local Link

Royal Botanical Gardens, Burlington/Hamilton
rbg.ca

Royal Botanical Gardens

Oakville Fashion Week will feature over 12 presentations, demonstrations and fun activities throughout downtown Oakville.

“Everyone in Downtown Oakville is very excited to host Oakville Fashion Week,” said Sharlene Plewman, executive director of the Downtown Oakville BIA. “We have over 12 events put on by 25 businesses! Our community members have come together and are working really hard to host fun and unique experiences throughout Oakville Fashion Week that we are certain you will enjoy.”

Businesses participating in Oakville Fashion Week:

Avante
Boa Boutique
BRU
Buca Di Bacco
Buck’s Hard Goods
By Consignment
Civello
Closet 112
Delacor Studio
FIORI
gabe + angel
Hot Oven Bakery
Island View Lilly Pulitzer
Joey for Men
Just an Olde Fashion Butchery
Kit and Ace
Lemonwood
Maska
Mendocino
Noble Bistro
SpinCo
Sweetbites
Tommy Bahama
VOC

This fashion event is brought to you by the merchants and businesses of Downtown Oakville.

www.oakvilledowntown.com

The culinary scene is often thought to be a largely male-dominated industry. And the restaurant business is notorious for the long hours, tight margins, and stresses of an entrepreneurial life. But, like every industry in our modern world, the winds of change are coming… and women are making waves in the food industry and they are being recognized for it. Though there are many in the Burlington and Oakville area to talk about, here is an introduction to a few of our female makers and shakers in the culinary industry.

Familia Fine Foods

Juliana Berrio  Familia Fine Foods

Juliana Berrio has always found that time spent with her family, while enjoying a meal around the table, is incredibly valuable. Juliana wanted to create a space where other families would be able to enjoy this experience, feeling closer to their families over a meal.

Launching Familia Fine Foods along with her husband, Luis, and two daughters, she has tried to make a place that feels like home to her customers – enjoying laughs and sharing with them a taste of Colombian culture. While living far away from the rest of their family has had its challenges, it has shown them the importance of creating their own community in Canada, who now feel like family. Juliana wholeheartedly believes there is nothing more important than doing what you love, and enriching every experience with a touch of that passion.

17-3245 Harvester Road, Burlington
familiafinefoods.com

 

Kelly's Bake Shoppe

Kelly Childs + Erinn Weatherbie
Kelly’s Bake Shoppe

Co-founders of Kelly’s Bake Shoppe in Burlington, Kelly and Erinn, made their splash in the culinary industry in 2010 with their first restaurant Kindfood (now known as Lettuce Love Cafe). Their aim was to help others see how easy it is to adopt a plant-based, vegan diet, without sacrificing flavour. The demand at Kindfood was so great, that they expanded to the Bake Shoppe in 2012. Thousands flock through their doors weekly, and they are so grateful for all of their customers; their mantra is to ‘live a life of gratitude’. One dessert they can’t live without? Their Mile High Brownie.

401 Brant St, Burlington
kellysxo.com

 

Saving Thyme

Alexandra Kinsman
Saving Thyme catering & patisserie

Alex Kinsman, co-owner of Saving Thyme in Burlington, was drawn to the industry due to a love of working with her hands, not having a fixed schedule and discovering a love for local food. Starting in the pastry section of Dundas, Ontario’s popular ‘Quatrefoil Restaurant’ when they first opened, she was able to experience a start-up kitchen environment and be mentored by the talented culinary team at Quatrefoil. The knowledge gained during this experience led to the opening of Saving Thyme with her husband, Phil (plus his famous butter croissants!). Alex loves working with her family each day, bringing joy to her community through amazing food. Her biggest tidbit of advice: always stay true to the vision and leave the egos at the door.

450 Appleby Line, Burlington
savingthyme.ca

 

La Parisienne

Courtney Colas  La Parisienne Crêperie

Like many others, Courtney Colas of La Parisienne Crêperie in Bronte fell into the industry as a part time job while in school. As the years went by, it became her career, with her working in almost every position you could hold within the hospitality industry. When the opportunity to revamp La Parisienne Crêperie came up, Courtney and her husband jumped on it. Courtney’s passion is creativity through food; she loves to cook and loves watching someone’s face as they try something you have created just for them – savouring every bite. Her current favourite dish: Courtney couldn’t possibly choose one, but loves their French Onion Soup, and their BLTCA (bacon, lettuce, tomato, cheddar, avocado) Crêpe with a poached egg on top for brunch!

93 Bronte Road, Oakville
laparisiennecreperie.com

 

Di Mario's Trattoria

Nicky Leonelli  Di Mario’s Trattoria

Nicky Leonelli has been passionate about food for as long as she can remember. She was brought up enjoying the simple pleasures of cooking, and naturally gravitated towards it when she moved to Canada in 1988 – inspired to make a splash in the food industry by non-believers who thought she would not succeed in the culinary business. Though there was difficulty in the industry, Nicky learned resilience and how to be patient with the outcomes. She stuck to her vision for the restaurant and did not allow her visions to be swayed. The good stuff about the food biz: Nicky loves her staff, who have become like family to her, and her guests. If it’s on the menu as a feature while you’re visiting Di Mario’s Trattoria, try their Ravioli Lobster – it’s Nicky’s favourite to share with others!

1455 Lakeshore Rd, Burlington
dimarios.com

 

Piazza Bistro

Joanna Tomal  Piazza Bistro

Joanna, co-owner of Piazza Bistro in Downtown Oakville, was attracted to the restaurant industry because of her passion for well executed, simple, comfort food. She describes herself as ‘obsessed’ with cookbooks, personally owning more than she could possibly count. It was this obsession for food, combined with her love of home-made family-style cooking that led her to launch Piazza Bistro 5 years ago. After 5 successful years, she says her biggest lesson was learning the difference between cooking at home for family and friends, and cooking for a room full of customers. She says it was a learning experience, but the atmosphere of the restaurant when it’s humming with conversation and full of satisfied customers with smiles on their faces makes it all worthwhile. Her favourite dish? A tie between her (famous) Dill Pickle Soup and her secret Meatball recipe.

94 George St, Oakville
piazzabistro.ca

by Heather Peter

Do you dig gardening? Would you like access to certain seeds for your flowerbed or garden? Local seed libraries might be just what you’re looking for this year. With planting season quickly approaching, the tools for starting or enhancing your garden could be as close as…the library. Yes, the local library doesn’t just lend books these days: you can also borrow seeds.

Both the Burlington and Oakville Public Libraries offer the unique opportunity to borrow from the Seed Library, completely free of charge. Once your plants have matured, harvest your plant’s seeds and return them back to the library, allowing more customers to experience the delights of gardening. The Seed Library carries seeds for a variety of plants, including eggplant, squash, lettuce, tomatoes, and lavender. Through returns and donations, the collection continues to grow and evolve. “The first wave of seeds will be available from our Seed Library on March 14, and will include vegetables that need to be started indoors six to eight weeks before the last frost before planting outside,” says library assistant Susan Thompson who runs the Seed Library in Burlington. “The full collection of seeds will be available on April 21, the day before Earth Day. This year we hope to add a few flower seeds into our collection, which has up until now been limited to veggies and herbs.”

Seed Library

Each person can borrow up to 10 seeds. Customers are not obligated to return seeds of the plants they grow as a condition for borrowing seeds. Instead, they’re encouraged to collect and return seeds as they’re able, but primarily they’re encouraged to have the experience of growing and enjoying some of their own food in their backyard, or balcony or community garden.

The OPL Seed Library in Oakville is currently housed at the Clearview Branch, and offers a wide selection of organic seeds that customers can borrow to plant and grow in their own backyards. This year OPL will be launching the seed libraries at all six Oakville locations on April 15. You don’t even need a library card to “check out seeds.” The library will be hosting Master Gardeners David Marshall and Lorne Sparrow on April 15 for the kickoff of the Seed Library at the Central Branch. “This new library initiative acts as a community project that promotes healthy and sustainable living, as well as encourages a culture of sharing,” says Lisa Williams, who heads the Seed Library in Oakville. “It’s a great way to bring our community closer together.”

Seed Library

How to Borrow Seeds

Select your seeds and fill out a check-out form. Drop off the check-out form at the circulation desk.

Why Harvest Seeds ?

By harvesting your seeds and returning them to the library, you allow more individuals to participate and experience the pleasures of growing their own plants. Harvesting your own seeds allows you to develop a deeper understanding of botany and the plant kingdom. You can save money by planting your own seeds and growing your own food. The seed library is organized by plant families (common names – beans, radish, etc). Seed packets are stored in boxes designated for the seed library. Seeds are sorted alphabetically by common name, and separated by dividers. Each packet is labeled with common name and variety noted.

Regardless of whether you’re just starting out or have years of gardening experience behind you, take advantage of this wonderful opportunity to grow some plants, nurture them, and, of course, reap what you sow.

by Allison Dempsey

Local Links

Burlington Public Library
bpl.on.ca

Oakville Public Library
opl.on.ca

It started with a bare and lonely hospital room, 10 years ago. While visiting a friend in the Complex Care unit at London’s Parkwood Hospital around Christmas, Lisette Kingo asked how many patients had to remain in the facility over the holiday.

What she learned about one bedridden resident left her shocked and shaken. “They told me he had no family members to speak of, and basically hadn’t left not only the hospital, but his room, for many years,” she says. “I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. It seemed inconceivable.”

That encounter led directly to Kingo creating The Angel Project, a charity designed to assist patients who will often spend decades in hospitals, never to return to a real home again. Their circumstances can range from accident victims with spinal cord or brain injuries, to those suffering from MS and ALS.

Regardless of their histories, all have been left without the tools and finances to fend for themselves, either because they have no families, their families cannot afford the expenses, or, in the worst case scenarios, families have simply walked away from the burden of responsibility. “Basically many of these patients have been forgotten. They are discarded people,” says Kingo. “They are in Complex Care units, often for decades because they simply have nowhere else to go. When I tell this to people, they either can’t believe there’s a program like The Angel Project, or they can’t believe there’s a need for it. And unfortunately, there definitely is.”

The Angel Project

Most people don’t realize that hospitals do not provide basic hygiene necessities for long-term Complex Care patients such as shaving cream, soap, deodorant or shampoo, and there are no funds set aside for recreational activities, haircuts or even a cup of coffee.

The Angel Project’s vital Slush Fund provides money for the latter, and their ongoing fundraising efforts help with the rest, but the organization does much more than that. “We work to provide money for co-payments on vital pieces of equipment that can often mean the difference between a patient being trapped in silence, or finding a voice to communicate with those around them,” says Kingo, noting that they have raised funds for co-payments of up to $19,000 in the past.

The charity also raises funds for outings for patients who would never be able to leave the hospital on their own. It also provides gifts at Christmas and even clothing for those who have none. “There was one young man with a spinal injury who basically lived in a hospital gown because there was no family to buy him clothing,” says Kingo. Heartbreaking stories such as this are just a few of the reasons why this organization’s work is so imperative.

The Angel Project

Funds also assist in at least one outing per eligible patient per year, and when possible they assist with the purchase of items such as wheelchairs, voice boxes and speech computers, and even simple comforts such as stuffed animals, soft blankets or gifts at Christmas.

The charity prides itself on being one of the very few organizations that operate with minimal overhead, run by a volunteer team and a board of directors. All money raised goes directly to patients at the Complex Care Unit at both the Joseph Brant and Parkwood hospitals. For personal stories and videos from those directly affected by the project, visit the Facebook page at facebook.com/TheAngelProject.

Just a few of the items The Angel Project has raised funds for to date include approximately seven customized wheelchairs, iPads with retina displays, SMART boards for patient use, hundreds of hand-made quilts, chair lifts, outdoor gardens, BEPAP machines, TVs and DVD players, stroke walkers and treadmills.

While some of these items can cost more than $10,000, in the end, says Kingo, it’s often the little things that make the biggest difference, providing dignity, a sense of worth and purpose to those in need. “We try to give a voice to the voiceless,” she says. “These patients often can’t speak for themselves, so we speak for them.”

by Alison Dempsey

Local Link

The Angel Project
theangelproject.ca

 

The craft beer scene has been making waves across Halton and beyond, with appreciators of the bubbly beverage popping up left, right and centre. Though the craft beer scene isn’t new, with the first ‘craft brewery’ opening in 1965, it has more recently come into popularity with the masses and has resulted in many breweries opening around the area.

Cameron’s Brewing

A family-run brewery based out of Oakville, Cameron’s Brewing Company just celebrated their 20th anniversary. The Cameron’s mantra is “quality and consistency start from the top”. It’s a company culture they stand by, with no money being spared when it comes to ingredients or process. Bill Coleman, the President & Co-Owner believes that “More than ever, what you drink is who you are”, and he also believes that  locally-made products are of great importance to the new generation of beer drinkers. Jason Britton, Cameron’s Brewmaster, agrees. “Beer lovers are getting tired of the standard lager or pilsner produced by the macro breweries. Craft beer gives the drinker an opportunity to explore unique flavours and new takes on beer styles.” Cameron’s most popular brew continues to be the Cameron’s Cosmic Ale that they started with in 1997, though they have many popular seasonals and special releases.

Nickel Brook Brewing Company

With over 50 national and international brewing awards, an annual portfolio of over 35 different beers, and one of the largest barrel-brewing aging programs in the province, Nickel Brook Brewing Company has made a name for themselves not only in Burlington, but across North America. Nickel Brook opened up as homebrew supply shop (Better Bitters) in Burlington in 1992, and made the switch to a commercial brewery in 2005. Since then, they have launched the largest dedicated sour beer brewery in Ontario – cheekily called ‘the Funk Lab’, after the funky flavour of sour beers – where they experiment with (and are positioned to be on the leading edge of) one of the largest trends growing in the craft beer industry: sour beers. Popular brews at Nickel Brook include their classic Headstock IPA (a bold West Coast IPA that is any hop-head’s dream) and the new, but best-selling, bright red Raspberry Uber. 

All or Nothing Brewhouse

Not only is the Oakville-based All or Nothing Brewhouse (formerly known as Trafalgar Brewing) a popular brewery, they’re unique because they’re a distillery. On top of their craft beer, they also craft mead, spirits, and ready to drink beverages such as their Brewers Cold Hard Coffee – the first ever alcoholic coffee drink in Canada. During the colder months, the All or Nothing team sees a growth in popularity of their full-bodied dark brown ales, like their Rifleman Ration. The rest of the year, their signature brew would be their All or Nothing Hopfenweisse, a west-coast inspired wheat beer with flavours of banana and bubble-gum with a delicate citrus finish. Visit their Brewhouse for exclusive products that are available only on-site!

Orange Snail Brewers

Relatively new on the scene in terms of craft beer, Orange Snail Brewers is a small family-owned brewery that has been open in Milton for three years. Though they’re young in craft beer years, that doesn’t slow them from producing award-winning brews. The team produce beers that they enjoy and they hope their customers will enjoy them as well. Orange Snail aims to support local as much as possible, utilizing local ingredients where they can throughout the brewing process and donating all of their spent grain to a farmer down the road. Try their Iron Pig Pale Ale: an earthy based brew, with biscuit and toasted grain flavours and subtle aromatic hops.

So, whether you’re looking to join the scene as a new craft beer drinker, or hoping to discover a new brew you love – look no further than your own backyard. Our local craft brewers are all waiting for you with creative and delicious offerings, and a variety of flavours that ensures everyone will find something to suit their tastes.

by Heather Peter

Local Links

Cameron’s Brewing
cameronsbrewing.com

Nickelbrook Brewing
nickelbrook.com

All or Nothing Brewhouse
allornothing.beer

Orange Snail Brewers
orangesnailbrewers.ca

It was mid January and, despite brutal cold temperatures and deep snow, the room at Frontenac Public School in south east Burlington was full. They were all parents who had come out to learn how to help their child safely navigate the world of social media.

The speaker was social media expert Chris Vollum, an Oakville parent who runs CMV Social Media Inc. and who is a widely-recognized educator on such social platforms as Twitter, Instagram, Facebook and Snapchat. Vollum didn’t pull any punches in telling parents they need to get more involved. One of his biggest concerns is that kids and teens are using social media for self-validation. “The single biggest issue I experience with kids and teens and their social media use is the obsession to use their content as validation to be accepted and liked. It’s almost like their content is an extension of themselves and their self-worth. This, to me, is an addiction,” said Vollum, in an interview after his talk.

Parenting

Cyber bullying. Screenshots. FOMO (fear of missing out). They’re the new language of social media and most parents are playing catch up with their child or teen and struggling to understand what it all means. A British study that included 1,500 youths between the ages of 14 and 24 found that their use of Instagram and Snapchat were contributing to the development of low self-esteem, poor body image, lack of sleep and fear of being left out, or FOMO.

When Vollum has asked students what they expect from posting to social media sites, they all have the same answer – more Likes, Followers, Shares, and Views, which translates to wanting more popularity, attention and recognition. “No sooner do they post something and they’re checking for Likes and Comments and hoping that their Follower numbers increase. The more Likes a child or teen receives, the better they feel about themselves.  The problem is the way they measure their self-value on the numbers-based results of their content is so high.”

Vollum’s advice to parents is simple – get involved. That means becoming more aware of what your child or teen is doing on social media by signing up for the social apps and platforms your kids use, and becoming functionally literate with them. That includes Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Parents should also “follow” their kids and be their “friend” on social media under the authentic premise of being there for safety and support. “Parents need to be at the very least functionally literate as to how they operate, so that if their kids come into  crisis or have an issue, they can jump in,” said Vollum.

Parenting

Whatever you do, said Vollum, don’t allow your child or teen to keep their phones in their bedroom at night. If you notice your child or teen constantly looking at their phone, or if they seem withdrawn or agitated when looking at their phones, that could be a sign of cyber bullying. If that’s the case, Vollum said, parents should intervene immediately and contact the school administration where necessary. “When this happens, kids will find that they won’t lose followers, and they won’t have less fun, but rather, their friends and followers will adapt to their new way of using social media,” said Vollum.

The ultimate goal is for your child or teen to show balance in using social media. This means putting a greater focus on your child’s accomplishments at school, in sports and extracurricular activities, as well as through the relationships they have with family and friends in real life.

At the end of the day, today’s parents are doing their best – just like the generations of parents before them. By speaking openly about the matter and supporting one another, we can all work together to create a safe and supportive community – both online and off – in which to raise our children.

by Denise Davy

Local Links

CMV Social Media Inc.
cmvsocialmedia.com